Life as it is.
That's just the way things go.
That's how it is.
We've always done it that way.
Oh,yeah?
well...
If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten.
You can't fix the problem with the same thinking that caused the problem.
There are tons of examples for ignoring what is in favor of what one wants.
Like the basketball players who visualize making baskets to improve their shooting.
I imagine it a bit like skeet shooting in sloooww motion.
Life is the target moving thru the air..the what is.
I don't aim at what is. I must aim out in front of that.
I must imagine where the target will be when my bullet gets there.
And once I've pulled the trigger, I'm done. Nothing else to do but wait.
OK>>>that's a really bad analogy, but all you're getting today. MUCH more fun things to do... I just want to say that LIFE - as it is - ain't all that much, and focusing on what (you think) IS, won't get you to where you COULD be. ever.
